We would really like a parent's "howto" guide on how to setup a Minecraft server... particularly for:
a) Restricting people by username onto the server
b) Stopping the use of destructive items (like TNT)
c) Logging chat for later perusal if required
d) Any other tips

I'm basically setting up Minecraft for a group of seven year olds... to put that in perspective they are just starting to write a few sentences on paper - they won't be involved in administering config files!

Hope to hear some tips from you on how to do this in the Stipe console environment.